What is wrong with you? Why are you filled with so much doubt. I know you saw that guy in Starbucks checking you out today. He even came over and asked you how you were doing. Yeah, you said good. But don’t think I didn’t notice how much you were screaming on the inside for this guy not to flirt with you. What was up with that? You always ask yourself why you’re single…well there you go.
You doubt yourself too much. You act as if people should be repulsed or disgusted by you. They are not. If you would let someone see the real you, they would love you. You are kind, generous, patient, and caring. You know you’re not perfect and that yes you are flawed but who isn’t. Maybe someone would like the fact that you are stubborn and dogmatic. But you never give them the chance do you? You ran away from that guy like a scared puppy because the thought of being rejected or having to reject him terrified you.
Stop doubting yourself. Let go of those insecurities because you remember what happened the last time you let someone into your life while being so insecure. Don’t be so hard on yourself. I have faith that you will figure it all out in due time when it is right. You are truly your own worst enemy, Self. Stop thinking you can read the mind of everyone who looks at you. You can’t! You don’t know what they are thinking and it isn’t your concern anyway.
Be brave. Be courageous. Be confident. Be yourself, Self. If you like you enough, the right someone will too.
With love and concern in her heart,